“If you're in a relationship right now, christian or not, ask yourself this simple question, " DO I SEE MYSELF MARRIED TO HIM/HER?" n if the answer is "NO" why are you in this relationship?”
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Lula Mae
Everyone doesn't date in hopes of finding a spouce. Some ppl date just to keep from being lonely, some do it to keep their minds off of a past relationship.
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Her: thats true ,but all your really doing is adding extra wounds in your life so when u do get that person you want to marrie he/she as to deal with all those wounds that could of been prevented n lets be real how long do that last? try friendship
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Lula Mae
I agree with you to an extent but Sometimes we have to look at it as a trial and error type of thing. How will we know what we like/dislike? How will we know what we're willing to put up with? How would we even learn about our own selves and how WE are in relationships if we don't have a few? Experience is the best teacher and most ppl learn and grow only through those experiences. now, don't get me wrong... Some ppl can't handle going through different types of relationship but in most cases they Meet, Marry, and live Miserable all because they failed to Mingle.
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Her: see thats the thing about it you must know urself ahead of time b4 entering a relationship ma you cant count on ur mate to do so n God will built you up ma n there is enough trial set up for us in this life to built us up, all we doing is playing marriage (when we enter a relation) and divorce(when we break up) its this simple God will never give u someone u cant handle but the problem is that we never wait for Him to do so thinking we got this only to bring pain n regrets in our lives
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Lula Mae i know for a fact that you can be a souled out christian and believe that God will give you just what you need, however, in most cases he places ppl in our lives sometimes for a reason (to teach us things), sometimes its just for a season (temporarily), and if He see's fit then they'll be there for a lifetime... all relationships that your get into aren't meant to last forever.
Lula Mae
Everyone doesn't date in hopes of finding a spouce. Some ppl date just to keep from being lonely, some do it to keep their minds off of a past relationship.
Her: thats true ,but all your really doing is adding extra wounds in your life so when u do get that person you want to marrie he/she as to deal with all those wounds that could of been prevented n lets be real how long do that last? try friendship
Lula Mae
I agree with you to an extent but Sometimes we have to look at it as a trial and error type of thing. How will we know what we like/dislike? How will we know what we're willing to put up with? How would we even learn about our own selves and how WE are in relationships if we don't have a few? Experience is the best teacher and most ppl learn and grow only through those experiences. now, don't get me wrong... Some ppl can't handle going through different types of relationship but in most cases they Meet, Marry, and live Miserable all because they failed to Mingle.
Her: see thats the thing about it you must know urself ahead of time b4 entering a relationship ma you cant count on ur mate to do so n God will built you up ma n there is enough trial set up for us in this life to built us up, all we doing is playing marriage (when we enter a relation) and divorce(when we break up) its this simple God will never give u someone u cant handle but the problem is that we never wait for Him to do so thinking we got this only to bring pain n regrets in our lives
Lula Mae i know for a fact that you can be a souled out christian and believe that God will give you just what you need, however, in most cases he places ppl in our lives sometimes for a reason (to teach us things), sometimes its just for a season (temporarily), and if He see's fit then they'll be there for a lifetime... all relationships that your get into aren't meant to last forever.
Go ahead, I’d like to hear what my people have to say. I wanna know what others think about this…
